Halloween Etiquette with Daniel

Things have been quite busy here at JDWC.  Annabel is traveling all over the East coast teaching in Pennsylvania, New Jersey, and Washington DC.  Katherine is opening our Utah programs in Salt Lake City and Park City.  Jon D. is headed to Dallas as we start preparing for one of the biggest Cotillion programs in the country.

While most of the instructors are off teaching, I am here in Denver getting ready for one of my favorite holidays...Halloween.  While I may have grown out of trick-or-treating, I don't think I will ever grow out of dressing up, watching Hocus Pocus, and enjoying the holiday with my family and friends.

As an etiquette/social skills instructor I can't help but see the importance of our actions on Halloween.  Whatever you choose to do, it is important to think of others and always show courtesy and respect.  Knowing the dos and don'ts of Halloween will also ensure your safety and the safety of those around you.

Trick-or-Treating for Children

1. Wear an appropriate costume that is not offensive.
2. Use an eco-friendly, reusable trick-or-treat bag.
3. Trick-or-treat in a safe area that you know well.  It is always a good idea to have a parent or an older sibling with you.
4. Only walk up to houses with the porch light on.
5. Ring the doorbell or knock no more than two times.
6. It doesn't matter how old you are...if you decide to trick-or-treat, you must say "trick-or-treat."
7. Only take one piece of candy from the bowl and never ask for more.
8. Always be respectful and say thank you!
9. If there is a dog or cat, you should not pet them (unless the owner gives you permission).
10. Stay on the sidewalk and make sure not to tromp through a person's yard, flowers, or garden.
11. Only eat individually wrapped candy that has not been opened.

Trick-or-Treating for Adults

1. If you are handing out candy to trick-or-treaters, make sure to turn on your porch light.  This is not only to show the children that your home is chock full of candy, it is also for the children's safety as they walk up to your front door.
2. If you dress up in costume and decorate your yard to scare the trick-or-treaters, make sure it is appropriate for all ages and toddlers.
3. If you know you have a rambunctious dog, try to keep him in another part of the house.  You don't want your dog to turn a 4-year old dressed like a pumpkin into a chew toy.
4. This is not the time to try out your new cookie recipe.  Only hand out individually wrapped candy that is store bought.
5. If you run out of candy, make sure to close your curtains and turn off your porch light.

If you go to a Halloween party, it is customary to bring a fun host/hostess gift to the party and always remember to dress appropriately.

The JDWC family wishes everyone a fun and safe Halloween!